In parenting, it’s crucial to present a united front to your children and support each other’s decisions.
By discussing changes together, you maintain your child’s respect and avoid being played against each other.
Steve and I made a conscious effort to stay consistent in front of our kids, even if we later discussed and modified our decisions privately.
Our focus was on demonstrating respect in our marriage and setting an example for our children.
This dynamic often highlights how our different thinking styles, with women connecting dots in complex ways and men tending to think more linearly, complement each other and provide a leverage for diverse perspectives.